There are certain things about my mother that are real hot buttons for me — things about her or that she does that just really get under my skin. I have spent years trying to come to grips with them, or to learn to let them go, or to even try to see the endearing [...]
Archive for October, 2008
Mastication… What Did You Think I Said?
Posted in Motherhood, My mother, Observations of Life, Who am I?, tagged Children, Family, kids, Life, mom, mother, mum, parents, Personal, relationships on October 31, 2008 | 3 Comments »
I’d Rather Tell You
Posted in Observations of America, Observations of Life, Who am I?, tagged attraction, husband, Life, Love, Marriage, Personal, pub, relationships, wife on October 29, 2008 | 2 Comments »
M popped out to the pub for a pint on Sunday night. “Sarah…” is what he said when he got home, “Sarah… I don’t know what she did tonight, but she looked really good, really amazing!” This is one of the barmaids, and I know he secretly quite fancies her. “She must have done her [...]
Forgiveness
Posted in Gratitude, It happens to an Expat, Making our move, My mother, Observations of Life, Prayer, Repatting, Who am I?, tagged Children, Family, husband, kids, Life, Love, Marriage, Motherhood, parenthood, Parenting, Personal, relationships, sick on October 24, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I am supposed to be spending this week finalising any work we want done on the house before we move in (carpets cleaned, floors finished) and getting all the move-organisation done (movers, address-changing, utility installation), but I have been so sick that everything has ground to a halt. My throat is killing me, I can’t [...]
Burst of Glory
Posted in Observations of America, Observations of Life, Prayer, Repatting, tagged autumn, color, colour, fall, leaves, nature, trees on October 22, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Do you know, I had completely forgotten just how stunningly beautiful the autumn is over here! No matter what is going on (or going wrong) in my day, our lives, the world… nothing stops the seasons from changing, nothing stops the leaves from turning. The glory is there to see if we only open our [...]
Virtual Friends
Posted in Gratitude, Observations of Life, Who am I?, tagged Blogging, cyberfriends, Friends, friendship, herbal tea, internet, Life, Personal, rooisbos, strangers, tea on October 20, 2008 | 3 Comments »
And just when I was losing my faith, I received a gift from a virtual stranger.
Which makes me wonder, in a virtual world, how do we draw the line between stranger, acquaintance, and friend? When we spend years interacting with people we’ve never met and probably never will meet — as we all do in [...]
I Love the Smell of Peanuts in the Morning
Posted in Living with Allergies, Observations of America, Observations of Life, Who am I?, tagged allergies, allergy parent, bans, Children, food allergies, food allergy, kids, Life, mothering, parenthood, Parenting, peanut ban, peanuts, Politics, school on October 15, 2008 | 6 Comments »
When I say I don’t get the resistance to a ban on peanuts in schools with allergic students, this is the reason: Food allergy sickens teen. Here we have a student who is known to the school to have a severe nut allergy and her teacher chooses to use peanuts as the item the [...]
And Your Time Starts… Now.
Posted in It happens to an Expat, Making our move, Observations of America, Observations of Britain, Observations of Life, Repatting, Who am I?, tagged Children, community, Family, Friends, friendship, Home, Life, making friends, Motherhood, mothers, Moving, Personal on October 12, 2008 | 3 Comments »
Halfway though church today, M turned and whispered, “Will they be having Mass at home now?” For a moment, I was confused — surely he hadn’t forgotten there is a time difference? — but then I realised he was right: we were at the latest morning service and, five hours ahead of us, they would [...]


